whats wrong with the lazy people?

just for fun tonite i thought id run by my lazy ring page and check out all the diaries that are in my ring. just to see how theyre all doing and see if people have stopped updating or anything like that so that i could remove them. and i noticed something that put a damper on my mood. i didnt really want this to be just another ring for "ring whores" to sign up for. i wanted it to be a means for really lazy people to communicate with others and a way for me to find some other new diaries to read about people i might have something in common with.

but when i was going through the different people's diaries, i noticed that some of them didnt even have my code up on their page. whether they keep their rings on the main page or a special "rings" page i didnt care, i just couldnt find the codes.

sure. you all might be sitting there saying "but sara, if they are really a lazy person, hwo can you expect them to actually get your code up in a timely manner?" well i dont know.

all i know is that when i join a ring i do it because i feel that it truly encompasses a part of me. like i would never join a "buffy" fan ring, even though i have seen the show on several occasions and generally enjoy it. i wouldnt join because i dont feel as if i would have anythng to contribute and im not some sort of buffy freak either.

i think i might be deleting several people from the ring. and i really dont want to do this, but i just cant seem to find another way to separate the quality diaries from the "ring whore" diaries.

maybe ill just leave this rant up for a day and then go back and check the diaries. if the codes have been added then i wont delete those people. but for the ones that arent up they will be deleted. yeah i think so.

huh. this sucks. i dont want to kick anyone out.

written @ 11:17 p.m. on 2001-05-22
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