the lazy ring dynamic is going to change.

sometimes i can be such a brat. i really can.

and ive been thinking more and more about this lately.

why?

because of this diary ring i started. now i like my diary ring. but theres only 1 or 2 people i really feel belong to it out of the whole list which is now somewhere up around 30 or so.

ive been visiting each new members site as soon as i get the link to it in my email box. and not to be mean, but good lord there are a ton of "ring-happy" little 14 year old kids out there.

im thinking about changing my ring so i have to approve people before they can join. that way i can kick out all these people i dont enjoy so much.

i only want quality journals associated with mine. or the journals of people i know (wether they are quality or not).

im certainly not into the idea that some nice grown-up person can come to my site because they enjoy what i write and then decide to click on one of the links for my diary ring at the bottom and go through more than 20 journals before they find one that has content of some level of substanence.

maybe i will start kicking people out. because you know what? i dont know any of these people. so i really dont have to feel bad if i make them upset. do i? nope. besides this is mine and i want it to be done my way. not just any 'ol way.

yeah im making some changes. now.

written @ 9:29 a.m. on 2001-04-18
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